Life Purpose… Say What?
Do you have any ideas what is your purpose in life?
When you watched a movie, the hero in the show always do something big and meaningful. He will go forward to achieve his goal stubbornly no matter what, even when the whole world is stopping him. Always, he will prove the world wrong and succeed in achieving his marvelous big big dream plus he always get himself a sexy pretty girl friend. Hence he has no regret living his life, because he has achieve his purpose in life? And we all wish we could be him.
Have you ever thought of your real purpose in life, why are you here living on this earth?
Very deep.
I’ve been thinking about that without realizing it. Don’t get what I mean?
If you read my blog and my profile… I was kinda lost end of 2006. Last year, I started my own business where I faced a lot of pressures & challenges that made me wanna give up so many many times. Also, because of me turning 26 which is such a big deal to me, makes my life turning upside down.
Sigh…. This was what I did most of the time. I sighed because I felt that my life was a total mess. Well, I seriously blamed it on the 26, because figure seems too big and not acceptable at that moment.
Luckily, fortunately and thank God… I bumped into a bunch of positive people.
I wondered why they can be so energetic everyday. So positive and life is full of hope. How, how and how? I didn’t wonder for too long…
I attended Life Mastery Retreat.
Ever since then… I put a meaningful purpose in my life.
What’s that?
Next entry…
Life Mastery Retreat Nov 2007
I’ve been away from the civilization for 4 days. Staying next to the jungle, back to nature and of course, no handphone for these few days.
To be honest, I wasn’t that sure before I go to the retreat. Well, I’m glad I told myself I was too early to judge and be skeptical about it, because after all my bro went for it and he gave it a two thumbs up!
First day…
Henn Wei, Lenny and I paying attention. 
We played game called Manual Life. The tagline of the game is “there’s no further instruction”. You only listen to the instruction once and if you asked any Q after the game is officially started, the coach is going to tell u off with the tagline. It’s like life… once you started, you have to go on and experience it, there isn’t any more instruction.
And you always share when you finish playing some game because that’s how you learn from it…
Busy calculating my cash in the cash flow game.
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Day 2
Didn’t take too much pix for day 2.
We went to waterfall in the evenin. 14 of us, with 2 torch light. By 7:30pm the sun set and it was all dark. It was quite fun because we can’t see anything at all and that was the time when everyone helping each other so that we manage to get out of the waterfall on time for the next activities.
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Day 3
We were given one and half hour to answer some questions and do up a visualization board based on your goal statement. We were given 6 minutes to share after that. That’s the session when you cry and laugh. Because that’s the session where it you did a lot of self reflection and I basically let go a lot of the emotion burden that I carried with me for many many many years…
It’s not the first time that my bro hug me, but it was the first time in my life when when he came to me and hug me and make me feel like a small lil’ girl. I cried non-stop. Well, we cried. I’ll never forget how I felt. LMR pulls our relationship one big step closer to each other. I love you bro!
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Day 4 – the last day
Day 4 was the highlight of the whole retreat. We had this session called ‘Butterfly Release” based on the precisionary effect. There were meaning behind just releasing the butterfly for fun. It was so, so beautiful….
After that we went for jungle trekking. (ahem.. yes the famous peace sign again)
And then some team building games. It was more fun when you play the game with positive mindset. Awesome.
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Here’s the LMR Nov 2007 team!
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Group hugs!
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There were a lot more activites than just what I showed in the photo.
I did a lot of self reflection, set some goals, and I know what I want in life. I am no longer that blurrie gal that turned 26 and don’t know what I want in my life.
I found myself and my life purpose.
Sounds cheesy but it’s true. I’d love to share this with all of you. I was so glad I went to LMR with Lenny. It was such a good experience and worth every penny of it.
Next one is in March 25th – 28th, 2009. Check out Life Mastery Retreat for more info.
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Quote to share:
“I’m willing to do whatever on a daily basis even though it looks as if nothing is happening.”
What’s Your Mission?
What’s your mission? In life, in your career, in your current relationship.. in whatever, whatever.
Went for the UYMG 07 recently and we were supposed to write down our mission on the sticky note and stick it somewhere on the board.
Ok, someone wants to be a millionaire. And why not billionaire, zillionaire etc etc.
I once only thought of having a comfortable life. Comfortable life – what is that? I was told that rich is not comfortable. To cut it short, rich never equal to comfortable life. And how rich you want yourself to be? Write down a figure that you want to achieve by end of the year, and why not add another ‘0′ at the back?
It’s time to set a different blue print.
Hmm.
Ok, that’s not mine just in case you are wondering. I don’t have such a big mission. Mine is very realistic wan.. hehe. If you ever thought that was mine, you haven’t know me well enough then. 
Now, what’s your mission?
2 Weeks…
I was kinda busy to blog for the past 2 weeks or lotsa things happened so I don’t know where to start.
Hmm.. it started…
2 weeks ago, I went to become a crew for a convention called Mind Mastery Convention 2007. And I’ve made a new friend, Keng Ling. We met during board game session called Zero to Heros but we didn’t talk much though at that time… not until MMC, we get to know each other better.
And then.. it was Jacky Cheung concert. We decided to go for the concert last minute. 4 of us, me, lenny, keng ling and jaq. We all loved the concert!
After the concert, we were all itchy to sing so we actually planned for Karaoke. Because of some reasons, we have to wait until Monday. Meanwhile, Jaq and Keng Ling went to Seremban on Sunday for a training. And guess what they brought me all the way from Seremban.
Yes. Nothing else but the Seremban Siu Pao.
But this was not just any siu pao. This one was ’siu pao with love’ and we called it ‘ai sam siu pao’ because Keng Ling drove all the way to my house just to deliver the siu pao at 1am. So sweet. If she was a guy, I’ll probably fall in love with her already! Too bad Keng Ling, I can only help you to look for a good bf (wink wink).
And finally, the much awaited karaoke session to cure our concert withdrawal symptoms. Haha..Ha.. The best thing is we all took Monday off and went to sing during lunch time. It was only RM9 per person with lunch set for 5 hours singing time. Pheww…
After K, it was still kinda early so went for a movie – Hairspray. Jaq was shaking her leg to the beat from starting to the end. So we have no choice but to join the beat. And I actually think John Travolta was quite good.
Few days later, Keng Ling told me Popular bookstore, Sungei Wang having clearance sale up to 90%. So we drove to KL and check it out. Got myself some books and the Ghibli collection because it was damn cheap after discount.
Finally comes to today, we went for a Free workshop – Business Psychology Workshop. It was quite good workshop because they only limit it to 30 people, and the best thing is it was not a talk. It was more like attending a one day course. The first thing we were asked to do was to analyse an ad. Hehe… isn’t that such a piece of cake?
Finally, Keng Ling also gave me a book called ‘The Little Prince’. I’ve heard about it for long time but never read it before. It’s a classic tale of equal appeal to children and adults. Also said this is a thought-provoking allegory of the human condition. Hmm.. interesting… have to read and find out more…
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Good news is MPS had already canceled the dog catching competition. Woohoo! Lily actually sent me the whole story of what happened and why MPS canceled the competition but it was just too long, so Lily why don’t you tell me next time when we meet.
And yes, I agree with you Chee Chiaw. The government should do a competition for hunting illegal indon immigrants. They cause more problem than the dogs. Good idea!
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Meanwhile YK, no matter your eyes are black or yellow, black turning yellow, yellow black, black yellow, you are still pretty okay. =)
Good Friend.
KuciMel.
You know who you are.
It was Form 3 when we were still at 3kh9. I woke up late for school and we were having mid term examination. Really cranky I rushed my way like hell… running up the staircase rushing to the classroom looking like the world owe something.
You, someone who is never late, already standing at the classroom door, all ready and prepared. You saw me walking into the classroom, you came to me, gave me a big hug and wished me happy birthday despite of my papaya face.
I was so touched I never would forget how it felt when you hugged me right in front of the classroom. I remember I acted cool simply because I didn’t know how to react. I was so silly. But I told myself I was so lucky to have you as my good friend.
I wondered how our friendship started to bloom. We never really like each other when we first met. We were just like hi and bye not until Youth Quake. I thanked God I went for that camp. I made some friends and I made you my good friend.
Thank God for you!
